Kept: Top 10 Signs You're a Spoiled SAHM

Okay, so we all know it is very challenging to be a mother. And a wife. And both combined. Not to mention the countless other hats we wear under the umbrella of those two titles. But when I really think about my mother/wife life, I realize how spoiled I actually am.

Don't get me wrong. We deserve it! After carrying a baby for nine months then enduring the blood/sweat/tears to help baby make the journey into the outside world, which I often liken to forcing a watermelon through a garden hose, for those husbands who might be reading who require a bit more descriptive of an illustration to truly understand the magnanimity of bringing another human being into the world. Okay, now that THAT is on the table, here is my list, which I admit, is directly influenced by my own life:





10. You have time to write Top 10 lists.
9. You get regular pedicures.
8. The woman who does your pedicures is a Peruvian lady named Lucy.
7. Your engagement ring offers your baby hours of entertainment.
6. While the DB's on your diaper bag actually stand for Dooney & Bourke, you find it amusing to tell people they also stand for "diaper bag".
5. Your husband surprises you with subscriptions to magazines he knows you like.
4. Your husband brings you your baby in bed in the morning after changing her diaper.
3. Your husband tells you that while you may think breastfeeding has completely changed your boobs, he still thinks they are perfect.
2. Your husband makes you coffee in the morning.

And the number one sign you are a spoiled SAHM is...

1. Your husband works 12 hour days just so you can have the other 9 things I listed, and then some.

Here's to all of you dads/husbands that work hard for your families! We may bitch and moan and give you grief. But at the end of the day, it's you who allow us to be stay-at-home-moms!

Thank you.

We love you.

The End.

Roles: Not the Kind You Serve at Dinner

I have been thinking a lot about traditional roles in the household when it comes to husbands, wives and kids. A lot has changed over the last fifty years and I want to be the one to illustrate those changes.

Let us consider, shall we, this ad from Housekeeping Monthly from 1955. I can't say much for it because it really speaks for itself. But when I first read it, I was compelled to make some revisions for our day and age.





The following is my version:














The Good Husband's Guide

• Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even a week before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for her return. This is a way of letting her know that you have been obsessing over her and are concerned about her well-being every second of the day. Most women don't want to cook for your lazy ass when she comes home so the prospect of not having to do any more work is part of the warm welcome needed.

• Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to pump up and take a shower so you won't be smelly and fat when she arrives. Touch up your deodorant, dab on a little cologne and be fresh looking. She has just been with a lot of smelly nerds and doesn't need to come home to one.

• Be a little gay...no wait, don't be gay. Be ecstatic when she walks in the door and don't say anything stupid. Her boring day doesn't need any of your BS and it is your duty to make sure you don't give her any.

• Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house before your wife arrives and make sure you didn't leave any of your dirty magazines in plain view.

• Gather up the empty Cheetoh bags, beer cans, porn, etc., and then run the vacuum over the tables.

• Over the cooler months of the year, you should run her a hot bubble bath for her to unwind in. While you're at it, why not pour her a glass of wine? Be available to wash her hair and rub her feet, too. After all, being her personal slave will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

• Prepare the kids. Plug them into a Barney DVD and forget it.

• Greet her with a flex of the pecks, a smack on the hiney and tell her a hard day's work looks good on her.

• Listen to her. For God's sake, just listen. Don't talk. Don't just nod like an idiot when you know are thinking about the game on Sunday. Let her do the talking - remember, her topics of conversation are way more important than yours and quite frankly, she doesn't want to hear any of your BS. Like I said.

• Make the evening hers. Never complain if she comes home late or goes out with the girls or does other fun stuff without you. Face it, buddy. You went outta style faster than DayGlo.

• Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your wife can renew herself in body and spirit.

• Don't greet her with your BS. How many times do I have to say that?

• Don't complain if she is late home for dinner or even if you don't see her for an entire week and she never calls. Count this as minor compared to the BS her boss may have put her through all day. Back to the BS. No BS.

• Don't ask her questions about why she bought that pair of Monolos or question her judgment on the trip to Fiji she is planning with her friends. Remember, she is the queen of the house and as such will always do whatever she feels the need to do, whether you like it or not. You have no right to question her.

• A good husband always knows his place.

(Note: No husbands were hurt during the writing of this entry.)